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Everyone’s Doing It and You Should Too

Posted By rbaxter80 on Dating - I think one of the trickiest things about engaging in self-care as a woman is that it feels selfish. At least, I hope I’m not the only one here having this experience. But, of course, we’re all really smart people and we all know that taking care of our own physical and mental needs is […]

5 Easy Ways to Fall in Love with Your Life

Posted By rbaxter80 on Dating - Wouldn’t it be nice if you could immerse yourself into living the life of your dreams? There was no one to judge you, no competition. You were not pressured to change or act a certain way. That “authentic” life we read so much about in self help articles wouldn’t even be a thing- it would […]

5 Things Purity Culture Didn’t Teach Me About Men

Posted By rbaxter80 on Dating - Growing up, I had some weird ideas about men. These ideas stemmed from the purity culture that I was surrounded by, which simultaneously idolized and outlawed anything to do with sexuality and relationships. When it came time for me to actually be in a relationship and get married, there was a lot I didn’t know […]


Posted By rbaxter80 on Dating - she is mythical mystical borne of fire and gemstones she exudes energy and breathes life into me and weaves a complete cipher around me i worship her pay tribute lovingly lay trinkets and spoils of war at her feet and beg for her love to be bestowed i am unworthy of her greatness satisfied to […]

The Shapeless Dance of Lovers

Posted By rbaxter80 on Dating - I often desired more with the impatient burning within the chest the shapeless dance of naive shadows being stripped of love and wish in the dusty single bed of a portrayed room. The scent of womanly fragrance floats like the last desire of the tempted skin and fragile body I wish I could say it […]

How Fat Shaming Feeds Eating Disorders

Posted By rbaxter80 on Dating - Not everyone who is obese lives on junk food. Fat does not mean unhealthy. Weight and size are not moral issues. I will use myself as an example. I don’t eat sugar, flour, meat, junk food, fried food, or fast food—and that includes reading labels for such ingredients in foods that may seem “healthy” to […]

New Submissions, Sponsored Content and Invoicing Policies

Posted By rbaxter80 on Dating - Dear Readers and Writers, Please be aware The Relationship Blogger has new submissions and invoicing policies. Submissions changes take effect immediately. Here’s what to expect: Changes to Submissions We will no longer be syndicating posts. Instead of syndicating, The Relationship Blogger receives first digital rights, first anthology rights, a minimum of 30 days exclusivity on content […]

A Short Guide on How To Cope With An Unfaithful Lover

Posted By rbaxter80 on Dating - You have just discovered that your partner has cheated on you.  You are devastated by this news.  Your marriage is now in a state of crisis and it might be destroyed.  You are thinking about filing for divorce in Texas because of adultery.  However, it is still possible that you might be able to work […]

How Your Emotions are Hidden in Physical Pain and Dis-ease

Posted By rbaxter80 on Dating - You’ve had a stressful day at work. You come home feeling tense in the shoulders. Your muscles have tightened up and you end up with what is called a tension headache. This is pretty common, we don’t think much about it. You have stress, resulting in tension, creating a physical reaction to the mental or […]

“Real” Poly, Part 2: What it means to be polyamorous

Posted By rbaxter80 on Dating - One of the questions that seems to come up repeatedly is “am I really poly?” Or, “I guess I’m poly” Or even, “Is that poly?” And if that’s not enough, there are also almost always people who are willing to tell you the “right” way to be polyamorous. Or, as I like to refer to […]

How getting substance abuse treatment changed my life

Posted By rbaxter80 on Dating - Back in my day, the minute someone approached the subject of substance abuse treatment, or counselling of any kind we would sort-of brush them off as a kook, a witch-doctor, someone that dabbles with that mind-spookery which no-one really wants to deal with. In my time asking for help of any kind was akin to […]

My Wife Cheated On Me What Do I Do Next?

Posted By rbaxter80 on Dating - My Wife Cheated On Me What Do I Do Next? Okay, well, first of all I’ll be frank. I’ve been cheated on several times in the past; once in a long term relationship and a few times as we were getting passed the dating stage. For us men it’s like a kick in the teeth. […]

How to attract women: 7 myths about attracting women you thought were true

Posted By rbaxter80 on Dating - How to attract women: 7 myths about attracting women you thought were true I remember being a bit of an oddball as a teenager. I didn’t really understand how to attract women until my very late twenties; perhaps even later than that. You can call me a late developer if you like. Think of me […]


Posted By rbaxter80 on Dating - listen carefully as i clearly state my business i’m here today to confess my illicit intentions i admit it; my heart’s been compromised my unwavering devotion has been split in half then multiplied my warm caresses, my loving gaze i can’t stop myself from looking both ways always faithful, never doing wrong but her beauty […]